Yr case is rare la
With societal norms, your case usually won't happen unless
1. Love
or
2. The woman is really rich
or
3. Both hv weird age fetishes
i'm not rich... we both dun have weird fetishes.... okie it must
be true love 
yest colleague found out abt
and our age difference (i just mention
10+ yrs).. u should see the look on her face hahahahahaa